Some of my favourite moments in Equine Therapy and Learning are the ones when I realise, after a moment of stillness, how much I am personally learning from The Herd, and how much I have grown and expanded.

It is one thing to teach and hold space for another but to experience the gentle power of the horses daily, from moment to moment, is my nectar.

The arrival of two and a half year old Brumby gelding Tommy and his introduction to The Herd has been an invitation to observe horse rituals and dynamics, both physical and energetic. Several times I felt the urge to protect Tommy. Protect a horse from horse rituals! What was I thinking?! So I simply observed and trusted, either from the other side of the fence or from within The Herd.

On one occasion I had a distinct sense that they saw me as a full herd member. I was one of the mares, moving with and among them and it felt like we were moving as One. Some greater force was breathing us. Another precious moment – I could feel rather than just understand the concept of Belonging.

Horses and – and canine companion Honey – enjoying a run. Photo: Beate Sommer

Through spending a lot of my time in nature and with the horses, my senses are so much more awake and alert nowadays and my heart leads with the courage to open, love and be loved. Mostly though I think it’s the gratitude that does it. My breath slows and deepens. I soften.

The horses make contact. One of the mares, Tammie, comes over and quietly stands by my side for a while until she walks off again and resumes her grazing. I think ‘love’, focus my mind on ‘love’, which helps me to focus on my breathing. Now I feel love. An opportunity arises to give and receive love, exchanging breath with Tommy. His feels warm, a bit moist and smells, to my anyway, like heaven. I feel immense gratitude.

‘Buffalo is the lead ‘stallion’ (he is really a gelding) and he leads with invisible threads running between him and his herd members. To the novice it might be difficult to determine who is boss, because leadership has a very different meaning among horses. Only Buffalo’s energetic presence speaks of leadership.’

Then I experience the deep peace of lingering forehead to forehead with my gelding Buffalo for what seems like an eternity. Rose licks my hands and arms. Shetland Pony Butters gently nudges me and buries his muzzle under my arm. Echo, well, at least she doesn’t run away. She observes with her unique mixture of reserve and curiosity. I look into her big, beautiful and otherworldy eyes. There’s our connection. Thank you. Each of these six horses is unique – just like people.

Tommy the Brumby making friends with Butters the Shetland pony, while Honey looks on. Photo: Beate Sommer

Buffalo is the lead ‘stallion’ (he is really a gelding) and he leads with invisible threads running between him and his herd members. To the novice it might be difficult to determine who is boss, because leadership has a very different meaning among horses. Only Buffalo’s energetic presence speaks of leadership. He is happy in his own space and doesn’t nag or harass. He leads his herd members but he doesn’t control them. Leading up to action, he stands back and observes for a long time. He moves in mindfully, acts directly and swiftly and then returns to relaxation. He is patient, kind and loyal. Buffalo has true presence.

Tammie is twenty-four and the lead mare, not the most dominant mare in The Herd but the steady and reliable one. I call her wife number one to Buffalo because she has also been here the longest. Her behaviour around Tommy is fascinating. At times she will discipline the youngster and give him chase, only to come over to me afterwards as if to ask: “Was that okay?” Maybe I am the lead mare in those moments. I stroke her neck and acknowledge her for her wisdom.

Not interfering in herd behaviour allows the horses to show Tommy the ropes and this helps me in training him. ‘Showing the ropes’! What an interesting expression. I will be showing him the ropes too, literally, lead rope, lunging rope…

There is something raw and real about a Brumby, like a special energy. My Palomino Buffalo, who is now twelve, is also a Brumby and he comes from the same area as Tommy, the Guy Fawkes National Park. Brumbies are very quick to learn and have an uncanny ability to read you. They challenge you to be patient and a good leader more than even domestic horses. They also have a special ability to bond with their human. I have found this to be true with Buffalo and already Tommy is looking for me and I sense the beginning of a similarly strong bond. I love all my horses but the Brumbies hold a special fascination for me.

Buffalo, the herd leader and Tommy. Photo: Beate Sommer

The media often portrays Brumbies as pests, inbred, diseased and a threat to the environment. The truth is, they are none of those things. The percentage of inbreeding is much lower than in domestically bred horses, Brumbies are usually not diseased or even wormy and their genetics are healthy and strong. Furthermore, humans certainly cause a lot more environmental damage than Brumbies ever could. It is also possible that in the not so far future Brumby genes might become sought after to refresh a weakened gene pool of the domestic horse.

I feel honoured to live, play and work with my two Brumbies, honoured and humbled at the trust and affection they offer me. I am also reminded of how much these animals have given to us humans. They went to war. They pulled heavy loads, worked the fields, mustered stock and served as transport. These days Brumbies are making appearances as safe mounts for children in Pony Club or reliable trail riding horses and they are winning their owners ribbons at shows. Let us honour our Brumbies for the integral part they play in Australian history and culture.

They also make wonderful therapy horses as Buffalo has proven for many years now. Tommy is already showing signs of becoming a trustworthy therapy horse as well. They are helping me to reconnect with that still centerpoint within, the timeless place of uniquely me. From here I feel the connection with Nature and Spirit. All is well. Horses are helping humans, and humans are helping horses.

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I get by with a little help from my friends….Rose, Echo and Tatonka (from left to right) are channelling energy to the client on the healing table. Her friend is sounding a Tibetan Bowl.

Merlin the pony is working on the client’s solar plexus area both through physical massaging and energy transmission. Tatonka is holding space.

A moment of deep connection and gratefulness at the end of the session.

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Verandah Magazine’s spokesperson for all things ‘horse’, Beate Sommer from Aurora Valley, talks about how to have a ‘soft’ connection with our four-legged friends, and we can relate it to our two-legged companions as well…

Over the years I’ve often asked myself what exactly is ‘connection’ with our horses? Is it a physical feel? Is it mental clarity or an emotional flow?  Or is it maybe all of those things.

What I’ve come to believe is that to me connection is a soft feel, a clear mind and emotional awareness. If the feel is not soft, the mind not clear and the emotions not flowing, it is not a connection, it’s more likely a disconnection or a block, or a distortion leading to a misunderstanding and miscommunication.

Horses notice everything around them, near and far, while being acutely aware of their internal environment at the same time.  We can learn from horses how to become more attentive, how to sharpen our senses, how to be tuned into everything without losing connection with ourselves. They teach us how to bring our focus back to ourselves, how to notice, sense, assess, decide and act all in a short space of time, and then to return to ‘Self’ instead of having our focus hijacked and scattered.  Horses are keenly observant yet without judgement. They take everything as it presents itself and experience energy in its purest form.

Horses interacting – playing, noticing, assessing…all ‘in the moment’

Misbehaviour in a horse is a form of communication. Looking at it from this perspective means we don’t have to judge it as bad and we don’t have to punish the horse. Horsemanship becomes a lot more inclusive instead of being exclusive. Everything is welcome and allows us to know the horse a little better. This is a step towards more softness and connection.

Just think how tolerant horses are of our misbehaviours! They are constantly trying to read us – our body language, our verbal cues, our thoughts and our emotions. Plus they can tune into our heart rate, body odours, even our slightest muscular tensions.

Horses also experience our misbehaviour as a form of communication. They sense when we are incongruent. Our incongruence lies in the energy blocks, the random and often unfocussed thoughts, our deeper and more hidden emotions, our intention and so on. Horses respond to these rather unconscious aspects of ourselves. They also respond to us when we are soft and connected and then they become soft too and we experience flow and harmony, even if just for the briefest moment. It is important to pause after such special moments to let them into your whole system so your being can remember the joy later on.

When we have softness we no longer need boundaries but until we have softness, boundaries are necessary. This is true for relationships with people too.  Connection with our horses presupposes connection with Self. Let us be soft with ourselves, especially in moments of misbehaviour. If we can be soft in our approach to ourselves, the misbehaviour-like communication, the disconnection from that aspect, which communicates in a distorted way, will feel safe to be seen and acknowledged.

Learn to read yourself honestly and with kindness. Speak to yourself in the same way. Soften those parts within that have become rigid. Then we can relax and our brains can think of creative ways to be and do with the horse. Our hearts offer us the kindness and patience to make the best decision in each moment. Our gut tells us what is safe and what is not.

Practise connecting the three centers of intelligence: head, heart, gut.

I read somewhere that ‘hate is just a funny kind of love standing upside down’. I’m mentioning it because in a way any misbehaviour is like that… love standing upside down.

So, keep grounded, listen to your heart and gut, and be guided by Spirit. Then your mind will use its positive, creative intelligence and your decisions will be for the higher good of All.

AURORA VALLEY Take Time to Smell the Horses offers Natural Horsemanship with Emotional Awareness, Equine Assisted Learning and Equine Facilitated Energy Healing.

“Horses and Nature as a Path to Awakening, 31 Authentic Voice Cards for Heart Centered Emotional Intelligence – Daily Inspiration and Practical Wisdom straight from the Horse’s Mouth”
by Beate Maria Sommer

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